After much wringing of hands and wondering if I would even have one word for 2017, I finally settled on one – create. As I move into my 40s, I want to be intentional to create the kind of life I want for myself and my family. I want to make a home that I am proud of, and a life that reflects the particular values that I hold dear.
I want the possessions that we have to bring us joy. If not, they need to go.
I want to spend my time doing things that bring life to myself and my family. If certain activities, habits, or hobbies drain from our lives, they need to be reevaluated.
I want to create a life that inspires others to do the same. I want to listen to beautiful music, read excellent books, cook nourishing and tasteful food. I want to use the good china more, take a walk when I feel like it, light fragrant candles, and eat rich dark chocolate.
I want to talk more openly and freely about my faith and values. I want to stand up for what is right, and against evil, even when it is unpopular and others would rather turn away. But I always want to disagree in a civil manner, showing respect to those with whom I differ, and remembering that we can learn from anyone.
I want to love fiercely. I want to be a better friend, wife, and mom.
I want to take time for myself when I need it, recognizing that I need time alone each day in order to recharge for the next task.
As I have been praying about my word for the year, Psalm 104:14-15 has come to mean a lot, a reminder that all our good gifts come from God, the Creator of beauty and abundance:
You cause the grass to grow for the livestock and plants for man to cultivate, that he may bring forth food from the earth and wine to gladden the heart of man, oil to make his face shine and bread to strengthen man’s heart.
If you have a word for 2017, I would love to hear about it in the comments!
Mary said:
How interesting that your word is “CREATE”!! I am in a different place on my journey–retirement from a 30+ year career will happen for me in 2017 but what continues to roll around in my head is how much I want to begin to explore “CREATIVITY”. As I read your post it gives me pause to consider a host of opportunities outside of the obvious ones!!
THANK YOU!!
I THANK GOD for each thought of you and your words of encouragement!!
Mary from Texas
Beth Holmes said:
Thank you Mary! Your comments are always such an encouragement to me!
Ronda Rodgers said:
My word for 2017 is not a word I will find on a sign or a bracelet. I’m uncomfortable even telling just anyone that it’s my word, for fear of being interpreted as being too critical of others or things or programs. It’s not a word we use regularly, but I’ve not found a suitable substitute. The word is edify. I only want things in my life that edify. If it doesn’t build me up and draw me closer to the life God would have for me, I need to lay it aside. If it doesn’t build up those I love – or anyone really – I don’t need to be involved. It’s more about things I’m involved in than physical things. It’s a kind of focus – but more defined. Hope I don’t sound critical or condescending. That’s not my intention – but I worry about such things!!
Love your blog. It’s definitely edifying!
Beth Holmes said:
I think that is beautiful. What a great word choice! There are so many things that work for our attention, we definitely need a filter through which we can be discerning – and “edify” is a great one!
Mary said:
I agree with Beth and also I’m sure a part of your word is how you can “edify” others!! I find this an EXCELLENT choice!!🤗🤗🤗🤗
Amy L Sauder said:
What a great word for the year! and I love your explanation. Creating has so many different mediums, and it’s beautiful to take the time and enjoy and experiment with them. Look forward to your creative year! ❤
Beth Holmes said:
Thank you!
astridannlarsen said:
Great choice! I’m not sure yet what it will be but probably something along the lines of continuity or perseverance and endurance (ok, that’s not one word…) I did the exercise to reflect on my past year, resulting in the word realization.
https://astridannlarsen.wordpress.com/2017/01/01/resuming-the-past-year-in-one-word/
Beth Holmes said:
Thanks for sharing! Everyone’s process is so interesting, there’s not one way or a right way to come at the one word.
Alicia said:
God’s been dealing with me about hospitality. I want to be more welcoming in my home. A pastor’s wife from several years past decorated her home as if Jesus were coming for a visit. She treated everyone hospitable (angels unaware).
Beth Holmes said:
I love that idea! Thanks for sharing!